Reubin, Jacob, Joneral, Judan, and Dogson – the names of 5 children who were given as part of a will to the mother of one of the men who owned my new home.  Children given away to the five children of the owner’s brother (Thomas Canady) – one slave for each child, I expect was the thinking.

I, instead, think a child given to a child.

These 5 babies were to be chosen by 5 other babies by rank of age or “lot.”  5 children would draw straws to find out who would own who.

My stomach hurts at the thought . . .

And I study their names – all I know of them – and think how even the document that gave them away like a china hutch did not, in all likelihood, spell their names correctly.  Reuben, Judah, General?  Jacob comes out whole, and when I search ‘dogson slave name,’ Google asks me if I mean “dogs on slaves” and I’m spiraled into another gruesome image – one I know better from Mississippi in this century – of dogs let loose on young children.

The horrors of slavery – gah! the cliche for which I cannot find new words – keep astounding me, leaving me sore tongued and weary.  How will we ever heal?

I return to my mind’s image of these 5 children – big eyes, ragged clothes, smooth skin.  Innocence embodied . . . and I wonder how long they stayed innocent.  How long does a child stay naive and quiet and playful in all the perfect ways when she is given away like a new doll?

This morning, with our move to this place built by the labor – at least in part – of enslaved people, perhaps even one of these children, I do not know what to do except keep searching, keep learning, keep bearing forth these children’s names in my heart.  Perhaps then they will be safe.

Oh, how I wish?

When you are reminded that young children were given away as pieces of property, what does that knowledge do to your heart? How do you carry it?


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